.

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. ~Robert Frost

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Doggies

Today's post is just a regular update on my pups - those silly orange creatures that I have come to love and treasure.

This is what I call a "traffic jam" at the food bowl. When I first got Owen, I put out two food bowls so they each could have their own food source and eat together. Turns out, they didn't like that. They would RARELY eat at the same time. One would eat half of their bowl of food, then the other would go behind the first and finish off that first bowl. Then later on, one of them would start the second bowl and then the other would finish it. It happened over and over, so I just got rid of the second bowl since it became obvious that they wanted to share. So now they take turns - here is Owen patiently waiting his turn to eat after Maggie is done.

What amazes me is that neither dog hogs the food. They each will eat about half the bowl and leave half for the other dog. It is so sweet to me. Here's Owen getting a drink while Maggie eats.

Since I got Owen last Thanksgiving, he has demanded a lot of attention and has needed some training on how we do things at our house. Consequently, Maggie got less attention than she has been used to for the previous 6 years or so. I sometimes feel bad and wonder if they both feel equally loved - I sure hope so. Occasionally, I will do things with just Maggie or just Owen so they get lots of undivided attention.

Here's my Maggie girl - WAY too much white coming in on her face and paws......She looks like a little model, posing for me - a little sultry, wouldn't you say?? :)

She looks like my little angel in her white bed. So peaceful......

My sweet baby Maggie - she'll always hold a special place in my heart, as my first dog ever. :)

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

America's Finest

A couple weeks ago, I completed one of the things on my 33-list: greeting the troops at DFW airport. It was something my pastor and his wife did and I saw it on Facebook, so I found out all of the information and decided to do it! There is a very strong organization that arranges everything for the "Welcome Home A Hero" program at DFW airport - I was SO impressed. They really care about those soldiers that are coming home and it shows.

There is a flight that lands in Dallas/Fort Worth every single day of the year that brings soldiers home from either Iraq or Afghanistan for R&R - most of them are going to catch a connecting flight to their home within the U.S., but this is their first touchdown on American soil since they stepped on the plane in a war zone.

Here's a little information on their website:

Welcome Home a Hero
is a program started to encourage and support our deployed military. Anywhere from 150 - 275 Troops come through DFW airport each day (7 days a week, 365 days a year) on their way home for a two-week R&R (Rest and Recuperation). One flight a day arrives at DFW and one goes back each day. A small portion meets their families here but the majority will catch connecting flights home. Volunteers gather each day to be there to welcome these Troops off their flight, thanking and encouraging them for their service to our great nation. The majority of the Troops are coming from Afghanistan and Iraq.
DFW has assisted thousands of men and women since the first R&R flight arrived in November of 2004.

While our Troops are thrilled you are here to show your support, many of them are very battle weary. Some have been on foot patrols in cities where the threat of suicide bombers is ongoing and for them walking into the warm welcome that DFW community provides can be intimidating and or threatening for them. This may be their first time to back in a group of people since their last mission. With this in mind, we ask you to be respectful of their needs. Shake their hand, cheer, tell them thank you but please refrain from hugging them. Let them be the initiators of that! Be aware of those who, for what ever reason don't want to make eye contact or shake hands or anything. Please let them pass freely. We never make judgments about their responses, because we never know where they have been, what they have seen. Also, please do not bring latex balloons or clappers.

The instructions say to go to a specific terminal and gate in the arrivals area and there is even a parking lot right there that is free! They also give you vouchers to get out of the airport for free (usually there is a toll). There are greeters from the organization right at the door to tell you how it works, give you a flag to wave, and answer your questions.

This arrival area is specifically designated as the military arrivals location, so there are permanent 'decorations' that children, families, companies and organizations have made to show their pride and appreciation.

This one below was my absolute favorite!

I think that all who made these signs and show up day after day definitely would make America and Texas proud if everyone knew this program existed.

This is what the gate area looked like when I arrived. I was kind of early, since I thought I would have to park in airport short term parking and walk in....but I didn't have to!

This is the sign that the soldiers see as they come into Dallas!

There were girl scouts, boy scouts, families, veterans, a photographer that donates his time & talents, etc. They even had a stereo system piped in with patriotic music playing as the soldiers came through.

This is when they got everything roped off and told everyone the rules and what to do and what not to do.......just waiting for them to get through customs and come through!

I loved this guy - can we say "patriotic"?? And they even told parents to watch their kids with the flags....that they are NOT a toy and shouldn't be merely "played with".....that they shouldn't fall on the floor, be stepped on, held upside down or disrespected - that would be offensive to the soldiers who see that. Things I wouldn't have thought about.....and I also didn't think about the fact that noisemakers, balloons, etc. aren't allowed because of not knowing where these folks served and that those sounds resemble gunfire.

Here they come!

Most of them were smiling, shook hands and were very engaged with the crowd.....some looked travel weary, some looked perky, but all looked like heroes to me!

The crowd cheered for every single one that came through - and they were very sporadic; they had to individually go through customs, so it wasn't like one big parade of them came through all at once - it was a few at a time and then back to waiting. But every single one was cheered through to patriotic music and welcomed home to the USA and Texas!

I happened to meet some special people while I was there. The picture below is of my new friend Martha and her husband. They are part of an organization called Soldiers' Angels. It is a group that is nationwide and basically matches up civilians back home with soldiers serving overseas. You write letters, send packages, etc. to your adopted soldier and they can write back if they want. I am going to get involved - they were such wonderful people and it is an amazing organization that does so much for our military.

And one last thing - when each and every plane full of soldiers comes in to DFW, one of the local fire departments is there with two trucks and they "shower" the soldiers home. They line up their trucks on either side of the runway and shoot water at the plane when it lands to welcome home the soldiers. All of the local DFW fire departments trade off, but there is a department there every single day of the year for these planes. The day that I was there, the Irving Fire Department was on hand to take care of duties. I love this part!

Monday, July 25, 2011

Close-To-Home Country Feel


A couple weeks ago, a fun new place was discovered - right in my own backyard: Rudy's! Jenks and I decided to try it since it is in the Highlands right by my house and he was in the mood for BBQ. There are several Rudy's restaurants around, but I don't know how widespread it is.

Anyway, it's VERY Texas in there and I loved every second!

Here's what was hanging from the rafters in the entryway - Texas and Rudy's flags. Gotta love it! (PS - I laughed REALLY hard at their slogan: "Respect the Meat")

I love the patriotism with Old Glory and the atmosphere was so neat. We ended up watching the Rangers game at our table.

Texans take their barbecue VERY seriously, so this is what they called the mild sauce.....hahaha

I was mesmerized by all of the old signs - I just kept looking around for fun stuff on the walls....

And they had garage doors in the middle of the restaurant and then on the outside part too - so that in the cooler months, they could put them up or down and then the outside part could be outdoors.

When we were in line, the cashier asked us "how many plates" we wanted. I was confused when we didn't get plates. I guess the white glossy paper = a plate! Too funny.

And even though we saw this sign, someone still came around to get our garbage.

Oh heck yeah, they do!

Here's where you pick out your drinks.....in this weather, I just wanted to jump in the vats of ice! They have all kinds of old school pop, as well as the standards.....and alcohol, of course. :)

And it's also a gas station and has a little general store too!

I had never been to a Rudy's before and I was very impressed with the food and the atmosphere - definitely somewhere to go again.

I loved this sign the best......

Friday, July 22, 2011

List Friday

Top 10 DB's in America (in my humble opinion - lol)

1. Snooki (or anyone from the cast of The Jersey Shore)

2. Michael Moore

3. Casey Anthony

4. Nancy Pelosi

5. Nadya Suleman (The Octomom)

6. Al Gore

7. Charlie Sheen

8. President Obama

9. Lindsey Lohan

10. Michael Vick

Thursday, July 21, 2011

Thankful Thursday

On this blog, I try to be careful about what I write, since I am aware that it is out on the Internet for anyone to see. I never write anything on here that I wouldn't want my boss, my Mom or my God to see. With that said, I feel it would not be genuine to the true nature of my 'online journal of life' to act like everything is great right now. It's not.

While this weekly post is designated to be a time/place for me to express what I am thankful (big or small), I also want to be transparent and express when I'm struggling. I knew that 2011 would be a year of challenges and change, but I really underestimated how emotional I would be about it all.

In December, my co-workers and I found out that our company was going to be sold to a much larger company out of San Diego. Right away, I knew that my job would be in jeopardy, as I work in Finance and that's just what happens. The official acquisition date was February 1st and slowly things have been changing since then. I do not know if I have a future with this new parent company or not, so I am working on getting myself in the best position possible to secure a stable future.

My brain understands all of that, but my heart and feelings are a mess! I have been struggling with all of it lately, and this week I am thankful for my friends who have recognized this and reached out to help. It means the world to me since I have a REALLY hard time asking for help and letting people close to me know how much I am struggling. It brings back some old dark feelings and so I'm battling to stay positive and calm in this sea of change.

My Mom has said many times that in her life (and mine), about every 3-5 years there is a big shake-up and adjustments have to be made. It could be a job change, a death, a divorce, a move, a health problem, whatever....but that every few years something happens (sometimes good, sometimes bad). She's SO RIGHT! It was almost 3.5 years since I majorly shook things up and moved to Texas, started a new job AND bought my first house. I guess those big changes bought me another 3 years and here we are.....

I know I can get through this season in my life - after all, I have been through MUCH worse! I just need to stay positive, work at changing the situation, and remember to reach out when I'm in need of encouragement. I know I can do it........with a little help from my friends. :)

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

I Love This Bar & CASINO

A couple weeks ago, April, Jenn, Lauren and I drove up to the Oklahoma border and hit Winstar Casino for a night of fun. Any road trip with these ladies is an adventure, no matter where we go or what we do!

First off, we ate at Toby Keith's I Love This Bar & Grill (inside the casino). As much as he sings about Texas, you would think he's from there.....but alas, he is from Oklahoma.

Here's the menu...

And true to his love of soldiers and veterans, he has the "American Soldier" on his menu with a free meal for soldiers with IDs - "Courtesy of the Red, White & Blue". I LOVE LOVE LOVE this.

A lot of this musical memorabilia was on the walls....

We ate up in the balcony area, so this is the view of the lower level and then the casino just beyond the glass wall on the right. It was a super cool place!

Nice branding throughout....

Yes, yes it is!

Some of their drink names were "interesting"........

Here's April sitting on a 'bench' that is designed to be a pick-up truck's tailgate - even has tail lights! They were so neat!

See below - Toby calls them "Redneck Loveseats" - hahaha!

Lots of indications that we were now in Oklahoma.....

However.........I guess we were too close to Dallas NOT to have the Cowboys represented.....

And hanging from the ceiling were both the Oklahoma AND Texas flags, along with Old Glory.

I broke one of my clothing rules - I bought a PINK t-shirt there (see below). It says "Whiskey Girl" (they were out of the SUPER cool black one that I really wanted).

I loved this place! Unfortunately, my camera battery died just after dinner, so I didn't get any other cool pictures. Oh well - that just begs for a 'next time'........